So, hypothetically speaking, if a guy you're seeing doesn't call or email you in over a month, does that mean he's not interested? I can be pretty dense about stuff sometimes, but that's the impression I'm getting. My mom told me that I should try to find an older guy. (late 30s-early 40s) Because they would be more established and ready to settle down and have babies. She has a good point, but if I dated someone that much older, he'd have to be cooler than Dave Grohl. And he better not want me to stop wearing my super hero boots.